Why Burnout from Trying to Fix Yourself Is So Common for Neurodivergent, High-Masking Women
So many high-achieving, neurodivergent women feel a bone-deep burnout—but can’t explain why. The truth? It’s not laziness. It’s not weakness. It’s the exhaustion of living in survival mode for years—masking, over-functioning, and trying to “fix” yourself to belong. This blog explores why that burnout happens, what traditional therapy often misses, and what healing looks like when you stop performing and start coming home to yourself.
The Hidden Strengths of Highly Sensitive People (HSPs): Why Sensitivity Is a Superpower
Many highly sensitive people (HSPs) have been told they’re “too much” or “too emotional.” But what if your sensitivity is actually your greatest strength? In this blog, we’ll explore the incredible gifts HSPs bring to the world—including deep empathy, creativity, and intuitive insight—and how to embrace your sensitivity as a source of power, not shame. Whether you’ve known you’re an HSP for years or are just starting to explore the term, this post will help you feel seen, validated, and empowered in your unique way of being.
Maladaptive Daydreaming: When Escapism Becomes Entrapment
If you’ve ever felt like your inner world is more vivid—and more comforting—than real life, you’re not alone. Maladaptive daydreaming is a deeply immersive experience that can offer temporary escape, but for some, it becomes a consuming pattern that interferes with daily functioning, relationships, and emotional well-being. This blog explores what maladaptive daydreaming is, why it happens, and how to begin navigating the line between imagination and reality—without shame.
Hyper-Empathy in High-Masking Autistic Women: The Hidden Cost of Feeling Too Much
Many autistic and neurodivergent women aren’t “cold” or unfeeling — they’re the opposite. They feel everything, often too deeply. This blog explores the experience of hyper-empathy in high-masking autistic women — how it leads to emotional overwhelm, people-pleasing, burnout, and the loss of self. If you've been told you're too sensitive, too accommodating, or too responsible for everyone else’s feelings, this is a validating deep dive into why — and how to start reclaiming your emotional space.
Why Neurodivergent People Have to Live Authentically
For many neurodivergent individuals, authenticity isn’t just a nice-to-have — it’s essential for mental health and emotional well-being. In a world that often rewards conformity, neurodivergent people are frequently asked to mask their true selves just to be accepted. But that masking comes at a steep cost: anxiety, depression, burnout, and a painful sense of disconnection. This blog explores the deep link between neurodivergence and authenticity, why values and self-expression matter so much, and how unmasking — little by little — can lead to more peace, clarity, and self-trust. If you’ve ever felt like being yourself came with consequences, this is the reminder you’re not alone.
Why People with ADHD Struggle to Feel Proud—Even After Big Wins
Why is it so hard to feel proud, even after achieving something meaningful? For many people with ADHD, pride doesn’t come easily — not because they aren’t accomplishing things, but because of how their brain processes reward, emotion, and time. This blog explores the neuroscience behind that disconnect, the role of internalized messages and perfectionism, and offers practical, compassionate strategies to help you finally feel the wins you’ve worked so hard for — and truly believe they count.
Pretty Privilege: The Hidden Hierarchy We Need to Talk About
What is pretty privilege, really? This blog breaks down how beauty-based bias shapes everything from dating to careers, and why chasing beauty won’t bring the peace we’re promised. From viral TikToks to real-life inequalities, we explore how society rewards appearance over character — and the emotional toll it takes on those left out. We also unpack the deeper systems behind pretty privilege, including racism, fatphobia, ableism, and class. If you've ever questioned the fairness of how the world treats people based on looks, this blog offers the clarity and validation you’ve been looking for.
Understanding Fatphobia: What It Is, Where It Comes From, and Why It Matters
Fatphobia isn’t just a societal problem — it’s a deeply personal one, woven into the ways we view ourselves and others. In this blog, we explore the historical roots of fatphobia, the many ways it shows up in everyday life, and how it quietly shapes our internal beliefs. We’ll also dive into the realities of body diversity, the harms of weight stigma, and why frameworks like Health at Every Size (HAES) offer a more compassionate, evidence-based path forward. Healing from fatphobia is possible — and it begins with awareness, education, and a willingness to imagine something better.
What Is Diet Culture—and How to Finally Break Free from It
Diet culture is more than a dieting trend—it’s a powerful, toxic system that tells us our worth is tied to how small we are. In this expansive guide, a therapist breaks down what diet culture really is, where it comes from, how it shows up in our lives, and how to begin the process of healing—for real. You’ll learn why diet culture is so hard to shake, how it fuels disordered eating, and what frameworks like Health at Every Size (HAES®) offer instead. This is a must-read for anyone ready to reclaim peace, autonomy, and trust in their body.